和能合眾 柔能克剛

安人者必然是和眾者，服人者必然是柔忍者，

因為和能合眾，柔能克剛  -   聖嚴法師108自在語

If you want to bring peace to others, be in harmony with them. If you wish to sway others, be accommodating. To establish harmony is to unite people, as the soft can conquer the hard.